Selfish people


Saw this on Instagram this morning, and I swear, sometimes it’s as if Rupi Kaur has tapped into my world and knows exactly what I need. This was one of those days.

“i will tell you about selfish people. even when they know they will hurt you they walk into your life to taste you because you are the type of being they don’t want to miss out on. you are too much shine not to be felt.”

This also makes me think of pedestals and those who will try to put you on them. The only thing that can happen is to fall.

“when they realize how real this is. how much of a storm you are and it hits them. that is when the cowardice sets in. that is when the person you thought they were is replaced by the sad reality of what they are.”

I have been selfish. I think we all are sometimes. But I do not believe I have ever done this to another person. It’s not worth gambling an entire being.

“isn’t it sad and funny how people have more guts these days to undress you with their fingers than they do to pick up the phone and call.”

Who are these people that can be so bold and yet so spineless at the same time?

I have known people like this, but never seen such an apt and lyrical description.

I have so much love and adoration for Rupi Kaur and her way with words. And yet – still! – I don’t have Milk and Honey. Soon! Soon. I’ve heard such beautiful things about it; I’m really looking forward to it.

Til next time.


Visual Survey of 2016

I saw this over on Gala Darling’s blog and fell in love with the idea! Back in my livejournal and deadjournal days I loved me a good survey. It’s been quite a while since I’ve had a go at one and this seemed like a fun way to look back on the year and set some visual intentions for 2017!

Here goes nothing…

2016 summarized in one picture…

nataliamm3Sleep No More – by Mert & Marcus with Natalia Vodianova

My biggest inspiration in 2016 was…

gala_home_2Gala Darling, for sure!

How I feel about the remainder of this month…

never_alone_11_1200Never Alone by Leta Sobierajski

My 2017 vibe…

Color of Beats by Yanzhou Bao

How I feel about myself…

Self Portrait by Rocio Montoya

How I feel about my love life…

Image by Eric Rose

My career goals…

Image found here.

How I want to dress on a daily basis…

Eternally in love with Cindy van der Heyden’s style. Check her out at COTTDS.

When I’m feeling unsure, I’ll remember to channel this…

tumblr_mtt8eyhq001stddpqo1_500The Other by Tetsuharu Kubota with Shanina Shaik

I will spend more time with…

H&R by MizEnCen

How I’m going to roll into 2017…

Photo found here. Think this, but a dash more hygge. Maybe even ending with a bath!

How I’m going to feel at the end of 2017…

Chantal Claret by Nick Holmes

What did your 2016 look like? How do you want 2017 to look?

Til next time

Jamming like a Killjoy

Shhh! Stop. You had me at, “We’re Killjoys.”

The one were D’av is about to get shot in the hip?

For those of you not currently on a SciFi kick (or bender, which is probably a little more honest), Killjoys is a television series about a group of bounty hunters in – you guessed it – outerspace. The Quad planetary system, to be more exact. Working for an organization called the RAC (Reclamation Apprehension Coalition), agents work outside of planetary politics, impartially collecting and fulfilling their warrants. RAC agents are to remain neutral during conflicts; their only allegiance is to the warrant. “the warrant is all” being their house word– I mean neato code and motto.

But, as things are wont to do, shit gets interesting. Well, more interesting. Continue reading